The problem is that you are too intent on showing your husband stuff and too worried about whether you were too harsh, etc. It's the mindset that one little thing is going to make or break your chances. Your focus is in the wrong place. It needs to be on what you are doing. Keep working to make your own life as good as possible, without him, and maybe he'll want to share it. Quit looking to him to validate what you are doing. If you've made changes for the better, and are happy with who you are, you can only be patient and see if he notices. He needs to feel that you don't need him...maybe don't even want him. Why do you think that so many guys that are kicked to the curb chase like crazy?
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
