Hi guys, I have another post but this is pretty specific. I go through times of such high hopes thinking that maybe I can turn this around; and then I start to doubt myself. I broke down and sent my H a text message last night. I KNEW I needed to leave him be unless he contacted me but honestly, sometimes I DON'T know what to do. I freak out because I think "maybe I was too cold when we talked last" or "I should've done/said something different". Do you find that when you first start DB'ing that it's more difficult doing those 180's than you thought? What are some good ways I can really show my H that I'm not clinging on to him but that I'm also not trying to push him away? He's made reconcilliation attempts before but then changes his mind or pushes me away and I'm left scratching my head. How did you guys really get to the bottom of your "more of the same" behaviors? HELP!
