OK, so I need advice about how to handle Mem Day weekend. H&I and the girls are going up to my family house in the mountains. I invited friends, but no one can come so it is just going to be the four of us! I am so exhausted from AS-Iffing by now, but I'm going to have to.
I want to talk to H beforehand and acknowledge that it's awkward that we'll be up there with no one else to distract us. I want to say that I assume we will try our best to be fun and light with each other and to make it fun for the girls. I want to tell him that if he can't bring himself to look me in the eye and be present and nice to me, then he can leave his sorry ass at home.
GRRRR. It just burns me up that my H isn't incredibly thankful for what he has--a beautiful wife, family and gorgeous country home (through me). Poor guy, huh? Makes me ILL that he needs to give it all up so he can be "happy."
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08
