Im sorry it took me so long to respond. Im so sorry. I know what he said had to have hurt you, the only consilation is that he's telling you what he is feeling, which is a big plus.
I don't know how long these things take as far as the mourning period of an A... I know you have been sticking it out a lot longer than you would like.
I do think that he has come a long way in some aspects of your stitch.
have you asked him about C or retro?
I know you will soon have a breaking point and maybe you need to relay that to him, that the waiting isn't going to be forever. Do you think maybe that would give him a jump start?? It seems he is being "lazy" about it, if im making any sense. that he knows you will still be here to wait, maybe he needs to here that you won't be.
I wish I could offer you better advice, I am here for you whenever you need me. hang in there.
*hugs*
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
