If I were you I'd talk to your H. Why not lay it out for him. You can put things in a D that you both agree on right? For example you want him to pay for you to go to school then ask him and then agree to put it in the D. Tell him what you expect from him and get him to agree to put it in the D.
I agree with Sara, go and register for a program you like. Tell him what your doing. You both seem to be friends and so he'll surely want whats best for you.
Have you thought of any new goals for yourself?
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
