Sleeper,

He has not said it in those exact words but he did say the last time I saw him this: "My life is not stable like it was, I am miserable, in debt and very unhappy. I can't sleep at night. I wake up shaking and go to bed shaking".

That was good enough for me.

His fantasy life is sure a nightmare.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11