WIfe Has left

[ammojmc]

Well been along while since I posted and things have gone from okay to worst. I found out that she has been telling the OM that she loves him for quite awhile. I found some IM messages between them.

Lets see everything was going fine, I had been seeing a counselor continueing to work on me the house was being kept up I am closer than ever with my kids.I found out what base I am going to, got the kids excited about it. Had just been talking to my wife like a friend getting caught up on what is going on with her and her family.

Tried to tell her that I had planned to come see her but I was worried about how the car was going to be shipped and if it was going to get there in time. Told her that I was worried about the kids being out of school for a long time and that depending on the car shipping that we would be going straight to Idaho, and she was more than welcome to come out there. I told her I was also worried about the pressure on the kids from her family and said that Idaho would be a nuetral spot and would make for a good visit with no pressure.

Well then about two days later she pulled 2500 dollars out of our bank account didn't tell me, so I had to call her in the middle of the night and ask her to put the money back and asked her why she took it ....she replied that she felt threaten by my comments about taking the kids staright to Idaho and thought that she needed to go and see a lawyer. I told her that the money was for the bills that we had together and that I would need all the extra money for moving....she then later sent an email and said that she would compromise and put 1500 back and keep a 1000 just in case sshe needed to see a lawyer.

So now I have moved my money and have started protecting myself I feel she will file soon I hope that it is not while I am overseas. I know nothing about the whole divorece process just know it is most likely gonna get ugly from here.

Any advice would be helpful.