You are right CW - for me, even though I may have sounded bitter in my posting, I don't mind paying alimony as I don't want to leave my WAW without. We chose Pleasanton and it has great schools, great neighborhood, so I get that part. Too bad your H doesn't see it the same way. My big thing is I get to pay until she remarries or I retire - that is for at least another 20 years! - that is a good hunk of change!
What did you do before you moved out to the Sacto area?
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09