hey hon, don't torture yourself thinking of what he is doing/isnt' doing. Ok, so one cant just "stop", but you can do some damage control to your soul. Grieve but dont' spend time thinking of the ow because the ow certainly doestn' spend half the time you think of her thinking of you.
I understand this separation is pretty recent and fresh in your heart and you are prob still trying to make sense of it all, he's moving too fast for you. Are you going to a T? perhaps now is a good time to see one hon.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.