I am sorry you are going through this. A few things my L told me about my obligations to W in case of D.
If she isn't working, I am responsible to assist in education so she can realize her income potential. During that time, I would have to pay more in alimony and support if needed (not so in my case). So you may be able to keep it longer than you think.
Also, what CC&R's don't know...
CW - wish there was something I could do for you. This is not easy, I fear I am not far behind you - keep the attitude you have had, we have all loved it. Do what is right, as best you can.
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09