My H also tends to mean what he says, but we have to realize in MLC they are like aliens & they really don't know what they are saying.
I agree with you that they may not necessarily know what they are saying.
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think you did well to write him a letter. I did that also. Sometimes they will read a letter when they won't listen or let you talk. That happened in my case.
Yes, you were right. Yesterday morning, I left my H a VM, where I read my letter to him. I felt it best to read it so he can hear the sincerity in my voice. It was VERY risky (emotionally) for me to do and I was very nervous before and afterwards. But I prayed before and after and left it to God. For some weird reason, the song "Que Sera Sera" came into my head and I started singing it to remind myself that God is in control. It really felt as if God was telling me to trust in Him. That really helped me feel better.
I didn't expect a response yesterday BUT my H sent me an email yesterday afternoon saying that he got the message and that it was an extremely sweet message. He said he really didn't know what to say at this time. He said we needed to get together and talk a bit. He thanked me for the sweet message. He also proceeded to respond to the my email questions from last Fri.
His response really surprised me. I had imagined him to take his time to acknowledge my voicemail.
This morning, I responded back, and also told him about my dog's mishap. BTW, my dog hurt her knee very badly last night. There were back-and-forth emails today about the dog and some advice for a topic he's very passionate about.
