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When I was at Retrouvaille, we had 3 presenting couples. 2 of the couples had dealt with an unfaithful spouse. In the third couple the problem was an overly domineering husband. There are many different kinds of unhappy marriages. They do try to have different problems among the presenting couples so that the attending couples have someone to relate to. And the method is the same. It is learning how to communicate to the point where you completely understand how the other person feels. That kind of thorough communication takes time. Luckily you have a whole weekend.