I can't afford the house on my own. In CA the numbers aren't negotiable, they are all based on custody and income.
I also wish I could rent something out, but I don't think that would be possible. It's a modern, open planned house and there isn't anything I could convert into an apartment not to mention it's against the CC&Rs.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09