You know what,reading through your thread has given me some strength today.The way you handle things is great.
My W has no interest in talking to me at all,and has said there is no way we'll ever be together again.But I feel kind of better today knowing that this is some journey that she needs to go on.
But what the WAS never think about is that they have left the door open for us to go on our own journey,and because we tried to keep our families together,our journeys will be less hindered and clouded by guilt and depression.
Don't think for a minute I won't go out and take my own journey,and live to the fullest,cuz I will.
Sure,it may take longer than we like,but someday,they will know in their heart.
Me:34 W:31 Daughter:6 Married:5 years on May 24 Seperated from Sept 07 to Nov 07 2nd Seperation Mar 28 08 til now EAs/PAs on both sides since then Received divorce papers end of August