Sorry about the wait. I have been really tied up in my own saga for a while. You asked me for advice? If I knew what to do I would not be here. I think your Husband is allot like my Wife but it is only beliefs. I have not checked phone logs so I do now know if they still "talk". Reading your post I think your sitch is father along than mine. I am hoping Retro will get me to where you and your H are in at least talking about what happened and where we can go from here. Even though I am far from where I want to be. When I look back…
1. my Wife would not look at me in the eyes 2. Would not really “talk” to me just give short answers 3. Always seemed “annoyed” with me. 4. Was REALLY secretive about her Cell phone. ( Dummy did not think I could figure out looking at the bill on line I guess) 5. Would make dinner ONLY for her and son 6. IF she washed my clothes she would just dump them on the bed for me to fold and put away 7. Did not want to be in the same room with me. 8. ALWAYS found something “wrong” I did. 9. When son did something wrong she would always somehow connect it to me. (Just like your father)
Now things are different. She looks at my face; she buys things (food wise) I like just for me. She only sometimes looks annoyed. (She is under a lot of stress being jobless and our saving are almost out.) She makes dinner for me also and she does not leave the room when I enter… So I don’t know where I am going with this but I do not think I can give any real good advice...
Take care Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
