Jeff, I agree and am not concerned with her "grades" but rather that her going backwards in something she has consistently been good at before shows that this is negatively affecting her. Much less about school and much more about my D's heart. She's been journaling with her teacher about what's going on between us and her teacher (excellent teacher, love her) has told me that she's been extra sensitive at school recently. sniff sniff

THEN I think about how he could do something that hurts his kids and the whole cycle starts, blah blah blah.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.