I'm heading out of here, so I'll post more later....
But, I wanted to say that I haven't heard anything to suggest that you are a crappy wife, and that you've diven him away. he has chosen this path, and you are doing everything you can to keep your family together. So don't beat yourself up!
Don't worry too much about D6 and school right now. Just worry about loving her! We've gotten way too obsessed with school way too early, and push kids too hard too soon, in my opinion. I think we try for too much too soon, and then by tthe time they are the age where the learning should accelerate, they are sick of school, and go stagnant. Anyway, my point is that at six, make sure she is happy and loved. Education can catch up.
