OK, GF, what's the story? How did such a fantastic girl like you end up with such a depressed, harsh, selfish, toxic man? Were you really young, dumb and thought you knew it all? I'm starting to think your h is actually right about something: you two are too different to make this work. I'm sorry, but I just feel like you deserve so much better. It's just so frustrating to hear what goes on between you and your H. I'll keep sending the messages to the universe, though.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence