He still thinks all of this is just my way of trying to control things and that it is all in an effort to get him to come home. Even when I explained that wasn't the case he still thinks I'm just a woman scorned trying to get back at him. It's like I'm talking to a child really.
I get that at times with my W - Your H is defiantly stuck in OW fog land right now. Even if other people start to tell him the same thing, he's not going to want to hear it and block it out.
I am honestly amazed at how well you are doing. Hopefully what you say here is a good representation of how your really feel. You have done a fantastic job detaching from your H. It sounds like you're doing the right thing - The OW thing will lose it's appeal eventually.
