Makes sense to me. We've had this discussion before. I'd be very naive to think that Mo2C is the only 'right' woman out there for me and the reverse is also true. I'm not the most handsome, talented, rich, etc, etc.
She'll say it is not that though. She is not looking for something better. She is missing that 'connection' with me. There is 'something' missing in her feelings for me. To which I counter that the 'something' can be worked on. It can be found again. Honestly, we've been together for 13 yrs and I think it has been pretty good overall. I don't see how we could have gotten this far if there is and never was some connection.
We go round in circles on this. Is it really something that can be fostered and nurtured or does it just need to be there?
That's a rhetorical question.
So she is going to be coming over in a little while to talk. Don't know quite what to expect.
It's over - we're done. I'm comfortable with how things are and want to keep it that way. I'm comfortable with how things are, but would like to start working on us again I hate the current situation and want to come back