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[AliSuddenly]

Guys! I think you're forgetting something here with all this analysis... SHES 21 !!!! I didnt know my *rse from my elbow at 21 and when I was 22, I dated a guy who was living with his GF, and he left her for me, then went back to her, then came back to me and couldnt break it off (but she thought he had) same old same old. I wasnt stupid (I'm not!), nor did I have low self esteem, BUT, I was young, naive and just really into him. But noone MADE him sleep with me. It was his choice.

You cant reason this out, shes just a kid maybe. 21 isnt that old, not if shes led rather a sheltered life with her rich parents and not had to take care of herself yet. Shes just young.

Clearly though, this R isnt going to last, so that must be a relief for you!

Ali xxx