L2, h told me on sunday about a buddy of his who was separated (I have met him a couple of times) and he and his wife really tried to work things out. he told h the best money he ever spent was for this weekend thing in colorado. he and his w still ended up divorced, but he said it was an amazing experience and the best money he ever spent. then h went on to ask me if I'd heard of her, weiner-davis. I almost choked, lol. I acted cool, but inside, wow. at first I thought he was feeling me out because he had found these boards, but in the end the way he was talking and such made me feel that wasn't the case.
we didn't talk any more about it, but I know he would be gung ho to go. although he knows its a lot of money, he doesn't know how much...not sure that might turn him off or not. we'll talk more this weekend, but its starting to appeal to me more for some reason. so maybe....
hopeful, did you do the 1 day or 2 day session? were you sent home with materials that you both could work on together? or was it pretty much just the books? did you feel like you accomplished a lot while there? It seems like you were probably in a different place where we are right now...don't know your situation, though, so tell me if I am wrong. in a nutshell my h left last summer and has been living with ow until a week or so ago when he left her and asked to reconcile...lots more than that, but in a nutshell that covers it. so he is pretty motivated.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
