Oh my goodness - we are very similar! Age might be a factor -although women (I think) go through it earlier, I know I did, but I never behaved like he is now. And I totally get the confusion as to what is inappropriate controlling and being responsible. My H would never make a decision on anything, so I had to - which made me controlling??? I always felt I was trying to drive him towards the potential I knew he had - but I guess that way being bossy and pushy. I just had some stuff happen today that I totally realize that if I were a man would have been handled soooooooo differently! It really pisses me off - you know - we get labeled the "bitch" but a man would be assertive, type of thing! Your color worked great - thanks for listening and being there!
Me-48 H-48 Married 25years Sep 12/05 S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12 Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1565826
