Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
Or perhaps something along the lines of "I want to be happy with you, but I also want you to be happy."


Even better! \:\)

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He really was irritating yesterday wasn't he? Lol.


You know what? I think it was more me. As it is, it's always a circus around here with 3 boys, but with an added 4yo yesterday, it can be a little overwhelming for me at times. And I've got two more days of this!

Everyone comes looking to me for things they need, and it is so damn frustrating when H is here and does nothing to help. Sometimes I have to ask for his help, even when he's sitting right there! But most of the time, he's not paying attention to what's going on around him. He's just immersed in himself, the TV, being out in the man-cave with beer in hand.

It just really p*ssed me off yesterday when I told the little ones to ask him to get them some chocolate milk, and he goes and tells them to wait for me, when he wasn't doing a damn thing.

He wants me to do everything, yet he does nothing to help me out.

Last edited by GoingForward; 05/21/08 10:01 PM.
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