So I need to try my hardest not to backslide anymore (though last night and this morning were pretty rough ). I need to go back to killing him with kindness.
Avoiding the R talks can be a hard one though. We're in the same house again, so when he brings one on, it's kind of difficult to just walk away. I could try ignoring him altogether, but that will infuriate him, I know it. Hmmm....I guess I could say something like, "Yes, I hear(d) you," with a big on my face then look away....let him know I'm listening, just choosing not to react.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
). I need to go back to killing him with kindness.
