I seem to agree w/ you on this one and I'll let my L take the lead. He is the one who is experienced and I'll follow his direction here. Thus, I won't go in w/ any set rules or boundaries.
The deposition is next Wednesday (5/28) and W has yet to mention it to me. I'm wondering what type of junk her L has filled her head w/ and if he's telling her there isn't much we can find. Who really knows?
I do think it will be uncomfortable for W (and for me as well, to be truthful) as she'll be trapped in some of her contradictions. I just hope it serves its purpose and doesn't create anything I can't recover from w/ W for the future. If it does, I'll live w/ it, but it would be nicer if it doesn't.
I'm not sure what to expect, but it will surely be interesting.