I am sure that DBing is not the end all be all, but does help to get us to refocus on us and see things with a better understanding of our sitch's. Even if it is just little.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."