I think you did an awesome job. I do not know how many people could have pulled that off as nicely as you did.
Personally, I ALWAYS love hearing stories like this. It is great to hear of how people have "moved on" without their spouse who blazed off in one way or another. I agree with the old saying, "Living life to the fullest is the best revenge." I think you showing up, acting as you did and having another man in your life speaks volumes to your exH.
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
