Kiki, your H is like mine in that they have no respect for us at all.
I just picked S7 up at the bus stop (around the corner from my house). I was expecting JA to be there but he wasn't. That got me wondering if he totally disregarded me and picked him up at school.
The bus pulled up and I said to my gf that s7 better be on that bus or there will be a show down.
Thankfully he was and JA came a minute later.
I hate how your H treats you just as much as JA treats me!
They do treat us like we are the ones that had the affair.
Oh, and Vali, I wished that JA would drive off a cliff with the ow today! I feel so evil for wishing that. I better go to church and ask God for his forgiveness.