Wait, she stated that she wants to help, and you hired a housecleaner? You know her better than anyone, so you'll know if that was a good move. I think the two of you could clean the grunge, and hire a house cleaner to top it all of, and make it "spotless". Is there a cleaning deposit you are trying to get back?
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
