I see that your W gave you the standard "checking to make sure you're still there" response to your party.
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Then later I get a txt " I guess that means I am not invited" I txt back " I guess I should not assume , you are more than welcome" Then she txt " doesnt matter , I wouldnt have come anyway"
I wonder what her response would have been if you had answered "It's going to be a small party", or "Gosh, I didn't even think of that." Something non-specific that didn't go either way.
That's a classic though, asking if she's invited only to say she wouldn't come anyway.
The borrowing of your car on party day is pretty funny & amazingly transparent.
It sounds like you are enjoying life right now, it gets so much easier once you let it go, as you have.
