she said, "no, it's like you take over driving while she rests awhile and then let her drive again when she is ready." Can't help but think that is something that you would like to hear. Of course, I don't know when the next "peck" would be, but you will.
So is this in comparison to us "driving" and investing in the M while they take a break? I'm not sure I am understanding the concept, but I would like to hear more.
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W friendly lately, more so than before papers...but summon court date soon and who knows if the two are related. Last night I called her and she did something that she hadn't done before and I noticed immediately....her sharing about her stressful day/life and not essentially cutting me out was definitely something different...
Has she realized yet that the summons date conflicts with 5D schedule? Always a good sign that she is sharing with you.
I have not spoken to H since last Tue. I am supposed to call at least twice a week, consistently. I have been 98% of the time but last week I called only once and this week I have yet to call. At times I feel as if I am doing more harm than good. I have run out of things to talk to him about and ideas for things to do. I fear that our conversations and time together are becoming routine, boring and sometimes even forced. I want our interactions to not only be positive but enjoyable for him. Apart from being cheery and making jokes as often as I can I don't know how to be that person that he wants to build a connection with. For now the spark it gone and I'm stuck here without my matches.
He is also continuing to call me his X and all his new friends don't even know that he is married. My local therapist told me to do more things for me and to ask 10 guys what his motivation is to calling me his X, denying my existence, but not yet filing papers even though I have told him I have let go. Thoughts guys?
Posts Role Reversal(original) WAW now LBS part I & II WAW now LBS part III(current) T: 9 yrs M: 8 yrs WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07 LBS: Sep 07-pres.
