Read light her fire! and yes can't means doesn't want too or doesn't know how too! The try things and then give up because it isn't working. If your W. is impatient in nature like mine. Try might mean a lot shorter period of time than is necessary!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!