Well near...I don't subscribe to the all husbands all the time camp. I promise, I do not.
I just read LOTS of posts on many forums, so I see many men saying the same things.
I ALSO read lots of women's posts and see them saying the same things too and yes I DO get on their cases and try to point out their contribution to the problem all the time. I'm an avid reader of anything having to do with relationships and spirituality, and both types of literature I read are always about how you can change yourself, not another person.
Near- I had originally responded to you on your other thread, I now remember and I just re-read it. At some point you simply stopped responding to my points to you...so I just assumed that you didn't want to hear what a woman had to say or what I specifically had to say and I left your thread.
Baghera - sorry for threadjacking. Back to your original programming.