Thanks guys....and yes girlfromipanema.....zero expectations...I've been reciting that to myself!!

T-minus 2 hours.....
J~

M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out