WAS's actions do and will affect us, but we can work at the level of impact they have in us, we can give ourselves permission to mourn, then accept what's going on, we dont' have to like it, just know that it is what it is, and shorten the period of time we brood about it.
Thank you Cat.Very well put and very true. That is one of my goals and I pray I can accomplish it.
found out about affair 8/06 H moves out Nov/06 D final 8/07 X re marries OW 5/08 _________________________ Courage does not always roar, sometimes it is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying... " I will try again tomorrow". -- Mary Anne Radmacher