Well if you asked my ex-husband whose fault our divorce was and whose fault it was that our marriage was sex starved, he would say that it was 100% my fault and 0% his fault.
Yep, after many men get married, they stop 'courting' their wives, become wrapped up in careers, and become lazy about maintaining that emotional connection that their wives need to stay physically close.
Yep, after many women get married, they stop 'courting' their husbands, become wrapped up in motherhood, and become lazy about maintaining that physical connection that their husbands need to stay emotionally close.
The point is, when a marriage is broken, the fault lies squarely with BOTH PARTNERS. Period. And to fix it, EACH much accept responsibility and work to fix themselves.
