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Anonymous is always good. The letter management got at the hospital was anonymous. With certain photos attached that I had in my possession. WAsn't me. nope nope. \:\)


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NICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Okay okay I don't lie well. :b It was me.


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Luckily, you are having some good times now.

You are right, I guess my point in all that is that they DO come out of the fog. H and I are a lot better off and he isn't mean anymore. I mean he had this stuck up attitude and he was MEAN. Now he doesn't even remember some of the things he did or said.

I think for the most part they all come out of it...it is just a matter of how long...and if they can admit it.


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Originally Posted By: klm
I think for the most part they all come out of it...it is just a matter of how long...and if they can admit it.
Ain't that the truth. My H seems to be living in a fantasy San Francisco...the fog blows in every night, clears for the afternoon briefly, and then it rolls right back in!


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I know that feeling. Mine thinks that just because they did not actually consumate the relationship it was not an A. Please...


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NikB has the same problem with her H. Luckily her H is living with her again and contact with the EA is down a ton.

Guys don't seem to understand the concept of an EA. Actually, I don't think most women do either unless they've had a traumatic experience dealing with it.


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Probably not. But I think the effect on the OS is the same as a physical affair.


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Yes, I think it is. Actually, I think it is more serious/traumatic than a one-night stand even.


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