Especially after he claimed me for housing purposes last fall and didn't share the money with me. I was Mad about that one - still feel like he was just using our M when it was convenient for him. Grrrrr.
Yep, went through that too. Although I did threaten H that I WOULD call his CO if he didn't help with the house especially since he was getting increased BAH because of ME!
Oh yeah, and he got separation allowance when he was in Iraq because we were married. We put it in the bank and after he left he told me all that money was his!! He wouldn't have gotten ANY of that money if he wasn't M.
Ok, I need to stop talking about this, I can feel my blood pressure rising.
I think it is good that you let his CO know so they can keep an eye on him. Too bad they can't make him go to counseling.