Adultery still is a crime in the military....I've been very tempted to talk to my H's CO a couple times....
I was tempted too. The lawyer I spoke too said it would have been fairly easy to have them do something about it since he was living with her. Not to mention the fact that his CO had seen his attitude change and required he go to counseling. AND he was sent on an emergency TDY and they couldn't find him. His CO and a friend showed up at my house looking for him. His CO said if they couldn't find him that night he would likely be discharged. That was before I knew he was living with OW. He told me he was living with a friend from work....the friend that showed up at my house looking for him.
Whew...sorry about all that, just wanted to say I had thought about it too....although I think that would have sealed the deal on our R being over.
