[quote][/quote] My dance teacher is skilled at this. She only gives us so much of a step to work on at one time, even though there is far more technique involved. We are praised for the progress we make. She then adds greater difficulty incrementally. This is known as shaping a behavior in the psychology books--rewarding successive approximations of the behavior you're trying to achieve.
CL,
I like this analogy. I don't feel any thing has been a failure with H. Since the bomb he has come a long way a babystep mat a time and I let him know that. I do feel right now that he is having a hard time working on us when he still wnts her.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
