That was a fantastic article. It puts things in a way that I think most OP don't think about. An affair is about being in the moment, not longevity. There is so much pain that follows it is incredible. I wonder if more OP knew how much pain they caused maybe they would not go after M people.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
H's W's take your spouses back day!!! Do you think we can petition the federal government to make it a national holiday?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Well I look at it this way...the federal government has alot of days off and marriage is important! Why not have a day when H's and W's can take their spouses back and kick the OP's A*& without fear of arrest????
Okay, I know that is breaking the law, but spouse stealing should be too...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Adultery still is a crime in the military....I've been very tempted to talk to my H's CO a couple times....
And M is very important. It's such a shame that society doesn't see that anymore. And that As have become so "normal". Sometimes I want to move out of the US, or at least out of the city, this crap is so much more "acceptable" in urban Westernized society and it's complete and utter BS.
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Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I agree. My H had an EA with a woman when we split. It was devastating to read her email about how they could be a "real" couple someday. I thought, well he is a real couple with someone else...hello...me. But it is so acceptable now for people to just walk away when they are unhappy instead of fixing the problems...and we are all looked at like we are insane when we choose to fight for our M's. Send the article...maybe then just one OW will understand what it is like from the other side.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
...anonymously of course.
