Joie, that is kind of how I am taking this, OW is slowly but surely showing H exactly what her ex told him she would do and what I have been saying she would do. Everytime he said "she wouldn't do that" she does something to make H say "hmmm" I told H he'd best take a step back and think twice b4 something else happens, I am fully expecting OW to trap H by becoming pregnant, and I explained to H that if that happens I will be done, those consequences I will not be involved in, because then she has H in her life forever,, if H comes back he needs to realize she is gone. It is not going to be like it was before I knew about OW, can't have both. So I am trying to just let her sink herself but at the same time keep him from making another mistake.
She is snooping because she wants me "out" of his life and i'm pretty sure that she knows that isn't going to happen but she doesn't realize that we have the 2 boys so i'll be part of his life no matter what she pulls, so she is trying to play the sympathy card by doing what she did and make H feel guilty, like its his fault, I just hope he continues to wake up and see her for what she is before its too late, told H just worry about what she pulls next
MAZ Me 40 H 42 M 1990 Together 20 years Bomb 2/16/08 Separated 03/01/2008 2 boys 12 & 15
