The door is offically closed

[sgctxok]

lol well it's now 11:00 and I really need to get my rear in gear. Anyone have any ideas how to job search when the are no jobs in the paper,or on the internet? I have put the word out to friends, am registerd with a temp service. Anything else?

Shoe, one thing most folks never do is to go and speak to the chamber of commerce. Bring your resume, and let them know that your desire is to stay in the area and you are looking for something in whatever field you are looking. Many times the chamber will know of various jobs hired through networking rather than the internet or papers. Do not talk to a secretary, there is someone in the chamber who communicates with the local businesses, that is who you want to be in front of.

Ian

EXCELLENT, SOLUTION ORIENTED ADVICE. THIS IS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT.

[Jen_Jam]

oh (((((Shoe)))))

This is tough, yes, but look on it another way. Your life is now wide open and clear .... this could be not the end of something but the beginning of something wonderful. Life is out there for the taking. You go grab it girl, in your fabulous shoes!!!

Soemthing tells me I have not moved on and I am not over what has happend. Why cant I let it go? I know people say dont let the WAS's actions effect your emotions but come on

Don't beat yourself up for having a loving heart. It's a rare thing these days.

Take it easy on yourself for now. I'm a big advocate of large luxurious bubble baths, with a glass of wine and a book to hand

Take it easy, you WILL get through this

JJ x

[fig]

morning shoe

this may be idle chit chat but I am taking a risk....



good morning sunshine

today we are going to not stress about jobs
we are going to look for some but no tlet it consume us

and

most of all

we are not going to get discouraged!!!!

[cat03]

WAS's actions do and will affect us, but we can work at the level of impact they have in us, we can give ourselves permission to mourn, then accept what's going on, we dont' have to like it, just know that it is what it is, and shorten the period of time we brood about it.

[Trip]

Shoe, so glad that Tyson is doing better.

So, you could've come with me after all. Shopping is a good solution to worries! Although, I guess if you are job hunting maybe not.

Anyhow, good luck with eveything and enjoy the extra time!

[shoeprincess]

Jen_Jam!
oh how I have missed you! Thank you for your wonderful post! It made me tear up, but smile as well. Thanks sweetie

[shoeprincess]

WAS's actions do and will affect us, but we can work at the level of impact they have in us, we can give ourselves permission to mourn, then accept what's going on, we dont' have to like it, just know that it is what it is, and shorten the period of time we brood about it.

Thank you Cat.Very well put and very true. That is one of my goals and I pray I can accomplish it.

[shoeprincess]

Morning Fig!
Will try not to get discouraged today. Going to keep busy around the house, continue working out.Very Very windy here today so no outdoor stuff for me. My guy wants me to go camping with him this weekend. I believe the last time I went with him I said I did not want to go again. I know he is just trying to help and get me out of the house. Bright side is that it will not be cold like it was last november. So we shall see.

Trip!
I am so blessed that Tyson is doing better. He is one strong cat. He is enjoying having me home . I think he is getting tired of me smooching on him so much I want to go shopping today, maybe a few things so if i decided to go camping I will be prepared.

[Trip]

Camping? You are scaring me!

[shoeprincess]

remember I had to go over thanksgiving and they had killed a bear ? I would rather be at the coast to be honest.

Does anyone know what to do for a syatic nerve? I know this is not web MD here but if anyone has any cures please feel free to share. It is something that started after I found out about the affair and was told it can flair up when I am under stress.