Now one more question. Is it normal for waywards in sitch's like ours to try to make one last attempt at connecting with OM again?
I guess I can see with these conflicting feelings she seems to be having that she might make another attempt at getting together with him so she can rationalize that what she's feeling for me is wrong and what she had with OM HAS to be right so she makes one more fleeting attempt at getting together with him. Me and DS going to my mom's for a picnic and the friends daughters grad party Monday may be when she tries this, if that happens. And I would bet my next paycheck that he'll blow her off once again. If that happens would that be the time that she truly recommits to the marriage?
Ok, Ok, I know, what if, what if. All speculation. But if you haven't figured it out by now, that's in my being. I was discussing that very subject with my brother the other day and he's the same way. I guess it's in our DNA.
Ok, everyone tell me to not think about what if's and just live in the now.
Do not think about what-if's; just live in the now.
