Quoting luvhubby:WNC, Women are insecure too. Any free advice on how not to turn H off with insecurity? LH
My advice here is probably no good. I have a difficult time understanding how a low-libido man thinks. Feeling secure, though, comes from knowing who you are and being comfortable with yourself. Everyone is unique, with their own special abilities, talents, and interests. When you know that you don't need your partner to feel good about yourself, that gives you security and comfort. Your partner hopefully makes you feel more complete and happy, building on your self-assurance but not creating it.
But I have no idea if being secure and confident will be attractive to your husband or not. Some men are very turned on by that, others might not be. Regardless, everyone deserves to feel good about themselves.
I get the feeling anyway that you probably do have a good self image and self esteem, at least what I can tell from your postings here. My suggestion is to tell him in your most sultry voice "Help me out of these clothes, I'm really hot". See where that leads...
