You are so adorable. Just be yourself and try to remove as much emotion as you can. I had a talk with my husband a couple of weeks ago and my goal was to be completely emotionless. Total failure for me. It's so hard. Just try to talk to him like a friend... Oh, and zero expectations, sweetie.
Best of luck. Will be channelling all the 'emotionlessness' to you that I can.
(((((JennyF))))
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence