Well, we had quite an interesting evening last night.
Turns out that my comments really bothered her, all day. She considers herself a very affectionate person, and it bothers her tha she is not 'naturally' being affectionate with me.
We talked about it at length, and came to the conclusion that we just need to give things more time, and we need to be aware of what we are feeling, and be willing to talk about it.
She wonders if she moved home too soon...I don't think that's the case, and I can't tell her what she should think, so I just need to do all I can to be there for her, and to be good to myself.
Reconciliation has its ups and downs...I guess this was a "down".
We did watch TV with her cuddled into my lap, and it was really nice, and she did stroke my arms and such, so I think we'll be OK...a bump in the road.
It sure did feel scary when we were talking about it. I was short of breath and feeling a bit stressed.
