I wasnt finished yet but accidently hit the send button.

Quoting AchingMan:
She always says she wants me to open up and talk with her what's going on with me; when I do she reacts in a way that tells me to shut the F up, eat your frustration, don't burden me with your troubles

Have you told her this? I had more thoughts but they escape me now. Sorry I couldn't be of much help. Still trying to help myself too.

LH