Filed Motion of Contempt....Updating

[Jeanette1120]

Soooooo.....

I've been db'ing my son the last couple of weeks, ya know I love the big guy but am just a we bit tired of him not doing his part around here.

I will admit db'ing him is going really good! Much better than an actual MLC'er with no brain cells

My son has been calling me at work to chit chat and of course I'm too busy however, when he called me yesterday he said "Please don't hate me" and I stopped the "acting as if". I listened he listened.

We are all we have, we have always been a team and we always will. I remember a certain person used to be so jelous of our relationship and it bothered him. I guess I paid my son more attention than I did to my xh. Hmmm....oh well.

My son and I had plans to go out to dinner deep in Miami last night (cough cough) but he was running late. I offered to pick him up where he parks his work van (at his friends house) he said Ok and gave me directions. Well....just as I exited off the freeway he called and said he was standing under the overpass Ok.....so I eased over in traffic scooped him up and asked him why didn't he just wait at his friends house for me??? He said because he thot it would be easier for me to find him. Uh huh....alrighty then.

Now as a parent we KNOW when our kids are lying to us. Gosh but they do believe we are stupid don't they? So we pull over and switch places....he's driving cos I detest driving in Miami! So were speeding along, I'm securely strapped in my seatbelt and he says Mom, I've got something I need to tell you.....my heart hits my tummy He said I can't take it anymore, we shouldn't have secrets between us, we should always be honest with each other about everything....(lip quiver) and I have been dying with guilt over not telling you something.

Yes, my worst fear as a mother has materialized.

Josh has a MOTORCYCLE!

Not just any motorcycle....one of those ninja speed zig zag in n out of cars kind of things He knows I never wanted him to get one. Crud. I didn't know whether I should cry at his honesty or angry at his decision to get one. So...I stayed calm then I listened to him explain to me about how the gas prices are killing him....how he's been secretly going over to his friends house on the weekends and learning to ride it, and saturday he takes his test at the DMV to get his motorcycle lisence. Bleh!

Sooooo.......yeah, bout that time I noticed we were in the vicinity of my xh's alledged residence now I know the address simply because it's on MY vehicle registration card. I didn't snoop...he handed it to me

So Josh and I pulled up to La Casa Batcave. I got out and knocked. Crud. No one was at home, and I really wanted to say hello

Now because I tend to talk to much I decided I should call Rich and let him know I dropped by. It's simply manners. Wait! I did try and call before I stopped by, but he didn't answer...I mean, nothing like univited guests dropping by unannounced right? So yeah, I called to say I stopped by but this time he answered. He was at his Mothers. I told him about the motorcycle and uhm...knocking on his door I don't think he appreciated it too much. He said something about stalking him. My bad. Then he said he had to go as it wasn't very nice of him to leave his company and be on the phone. Ffffttttt.

First....no wait....second time in 2.5 years I've gotten up the nerve to knock on a door he might be hiding behind and now......now I am a stalker.

I don't think he appreciated my giggles either, but I couldn't help it. Ever get a case of the giggles and can't stop??? Well I did and uhm, I guess he didn't think it was as amusing as I did. My bad.

Anyway......topped off the evening by following my son home on his motorcycle through the Miami streets and freeways then Josh took me for a ride in the neighborhood. I don't like it

And it's only Wednesday!!